Submitted by infojunkie on Fri, 2007-05-18 12:39.
Among my saddest moments are those when I realize that people who are dear to me have succumbed to negative habits, beyond redemption. I feel it as yet another victory of the dark unconscious over consciousness.
What is a habit? It's a tendency to react in a specific way to a specific set of circumstances - but that actively discards all other possible ways to react. In that sense, it's like an alien living inside our mind. When I get home from work, tired and tense, I will reach frantically for that first cigarette because I know that it will make me calmer. I'm possessed.
A habit starts as a behavioral trait that occurs only occasionally, and that can be debated consciously, both internally inside the subject himself, and between the subject and his peers. It makes me think of the famous movie line: